What does your technology free downtime look like?

“Men have become the tools of their tools.” ~Henry David Thoreau

Metal BallThe gears turned and it started a chain reaction which would ultimately lead to my demise. There’s always a chance it won’t. Something could misfire, the boot might miss the bucket or the blue pole with the hand might go awry, causing the metal ball to not drop into the tub. This time I knew my fate was sealed when the green man, who had been patiently waiting with his knees bent and hands held palm to palm, shot into the air and landed in the yellow bucket. My head dropped into my hands as I heard the red basket spiral down its spiked yellow stick.

“I trapped you Dad!” my daughter shouted while pointing at me from across the table. “You’re out!”

Overwhelmed with technology.

I was driving home from work the other day and was forced to sit in my usual cornucopia of traffic, accidents, and rain. I got to thinking this time about technology and social media and how those things have absorbed me. I’m either blogging about it, at work or home doing it, stopped at a red light doing it; I’ve constantly got my nose shoved in front of some device.

Too much technology in my life sometimes

Look at all of this crap! Not shown: My desktop PC

I thought about my typical day – I wake up, check Facebook, Twitter and my blog, drive to work while checking Facebook at a red light (I am parked I swear it!), get to work and spend my day working in front of a computer, drive home and witness TweetDeck crash on my phone again while parked at a red light, get home and fire up my Chromebook and check stuff, play Angry Birds on my phone, go on my main desktop PC and review things, and just before I fall asleep I lay in bed and read a book on my Kindle.

What is wrong with us?

Memories matter

Memories matter

Holy smokes what are we doing to ourselves? Does this describe your typical day too? What is real anymore? Technology was designed to make our lives easier but what part of our lives is it taking away? What I try to do is have disconnected downtime. How I accomplish that is through my kids. We play board games, we go for walks, we geocache (which is cheating about disconnecting slightly), we hit the playground, and make memories without the benefit of technology. That’s the real stuff. Memories. Staring at the computer and updating a status doesn’t build the kind of memories that will live forever inside of you. After a few weeks, you’ll forget all about it. Seeing your son find that geocache buried under a bench or watching your daughter demonstrate how to crush her opponents in her favorite game? That stuff is priceless.

Go build some real memories

So I ask you … “What do you do on your “technology free” downtime?” You do take some don’t you? You do go out there and build real memories right? People at work sometimes ask to borrow the company laptop when they go on vacation. I always give them a hard time and even laugh some. A vacation is not only time away from your real life but technology as well. That stuff will be there when you get back. Go build some memories and then come back and share them.

Mouse Trap

The game was Mouse Trap and the stakes? They were high.

After eliminating me from the game, my daughter went on to win by defeating her brother in a bitter struggle for power around the cheese wheel. We played again. I lost again. Later my son proceeded to hustle me in Monopoly Junior. After that my daughter flipped her last card in the princess slipper game to win. Just before bed, revenge was finally mine as I crushed both of them in Mickey Mouse Yahtzee. We laughed, one of them spent a minute in time out but we created some pretty cool memories. The best part? It was real and no technology was required.

Thanks to Flickr for the pic!

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  • Downtime is crucial for me.  There is a point at the end of the day it does go off typically.  On the weekend it is hardly on at all.  I had a certain point not too long when everything was always on and the affects were not good.  It has taken some discipline and balance but at least I find that the time I do spend on it is quality.  My mind is fresh and I can contribute something positive.  I am a family man like you my friend and my kids are growing up too fast.  I don’t want their final memories of their Dad at home is with a laptop attached to his wrists.  Thanks for the post. 

    • So often I find myself getting home from work and grabbing my phone or Chromebook and checking other things I didn’t during the day. It’s too much. I’m working on it because you’re right… “I don’t want their memories of their Dad at home with his laptop attached to his wrists” either. Thanks for commenting.

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